Well I ended up with the true test (according to AL) We were online for 5 months till we finally decided to give each other our phone numbers. Then we talked a bit & played phone tag half the time. Ok - things went well till one day we decided to have lunch. We had a wonderful time. Then he went psycho on me & started making demands on my time. I wasn't ready. More psycho-ness on the phone too. I got scared & told him to "spit me out". So he sends me emails once a week & I give him a short response about where I'll be - & that's not with him though.

For me, fromping is a connection (right again, AL), very much like a relationship. Then it has to get to the next level if the interest is truly there. You either dies or goes to an actual meeting.

I was quite disappointed my 'fromping' worked out the way it did. I thought he was cool & cute too. And sometimes I am confused about what really happened there. But just glad we still keep in touch. Presently, I continue to make no promises.